If the LORD says that a woman who puts on the ornament of a quiet and gentle spirit, (which is precious in His sight), is a good thing, then I'd best pay attention. And so I have. And so I've prayed. And so I've made deliberate changes.
So, if you have noticed changes in my, then praise God. You may have thought it was for the worse, but God sees it as for the better. I strive to be a vessel for God to use for His glory.
1Pe 3:4 But [let it be] the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, [even the ornament] of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.